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Alvin
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Man
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Tanzania |
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Woman
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Marriage, Serious relationship
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Never been married
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Yes
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Most important
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say later |
| Life Dream: |
become pilote |
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English, Afrikaans |
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English, Afrikaans |
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Diving, Surfing, Swimming |
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Concerts, Dancing |
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rice |
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red |
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summer |
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Hi, Nice to meet you here and I am happy to be here anyway!!!! My
name is Algore Sympson Georgeous. I am a boy aged 25yrs old living
in my lovely country which located in Africa. My country TANZANIA
home of the world's animals is leading with natural animals parks
in the world. We have more than 12 natural parks in my country.
Also it’s the first country for producing diamond and gold in the
world. My family we are 4 children’s in total, I am the first bon,
then the second is my young sister, third ones my young brother and
the last one is my youngest sister. My family has divorced and for
the moment I am living alone just with my friends sometime I can
say they are my parents!!!! After my family been divorced I was
taken care by my uncles. I took my Primary education in India when
my mummy was ambassador there in India, then I went Geneva
Switzerland where I took my Ordinary secondary, after that I went
back to my lovely country where I took my Advanced Level of
Education. After my good results I went to join University of
Kampala where I gained my degree of Bachelor leisure Tourism and
Hotel Management its good because now I am working here in my
lovely country. I am here because I need to tell the world how I am
looks like and what I need. I am African but white a bit, aged 25
yrs again, my body is average and my hair is black. I am tall
around 6feets. I am looking for beautifully wife who is going to be
my lovely wife. I am sure from God that I know how to love, how to
care and I promise to love her forever. I think the day I will meet
her I'll beg the world to listen even a second for our love story,
I'll like to take her up to the top of the mountain around 5: am
before light come more clear and when the lighter start come clear
now I'll tell her how my feelings is to her and from there we gonna
open our relationship!!! If there's an organ in the body that
causes loneliness, I'm sure it's located near the stomach. When I'm
really hungry I'll eat anything—lettuce, ice, dried pasta, frozen
peas. The same is true when I'm lonely. I'll look anywhere or do
anything to stop the hunger. I know I'm lonely when I check my
e-mail, click on another site, and then check my box again to see
if mail came in. Maybe I missed something. Sometimes I dial the
voicemail on my cell phone to check for messages, even though the
very colorful and accurate display screen reads "no new messages."
Maybe the screen messed up. When I get home from work, my first
stop if my office to check my phone. Aha! The little green light on
my caller ID box is flashing. A new message! I dial into the
system. I punch in my code. I wait. I frown. I hang up. Another
telemarketer wants to sell me solar heating for my pool. As that
unidentified organ near my stomach begins to pump the lonely
feeling into my body from ears to toes, I resort to the backup
plan. Noise, motion, a task, any distraction is all I need to stave
off the growing hunger. I turn on the radio. Nuts! Commercials. I
turn on the TV. Fifty-five channels of boredom. I eat. I just
bought these cookies, how can they be stale? I drink. Remember to
buy more milk. I sleep. Why do all my neighbors have dogs? I do
laundry. I mow the lawn. I write out bills. I make my bed. I play
video games. I write. I run errands. I organize my closet. I read.
I vacuum. I desperately search for any distraction to deaden the
pain. Finally I find myself sitting on my couch thinking, Maybe I
should call somebody. I haven't talked to Dave in a while. Dave
moved to Colorado three years ago, and since then we've talked
twice. What about Brandy in New Jersey? We need to catch up. I
haven't talked to Brandy at all in two years. If someone does call
to ask a quick question, I become unusually friendly. So how are
you? What's new with you? I'm sure the caller can see through my
charade. Now the organ inside is working overtime. I'm consumed
with loneliness. I grow bitter. Why don't more people call me? I'm
a nice guy. I think about all the things I've done for other people
and wonder why they don't do more for me. I think about Friday
night approaching—I've received no invitations and made no plans.
Time for a one-man pity party. I bet everybody is going out on
Friday night except me. I embellish the fantasy in my mind by
imagining all my friends at a rocking party with great music in the
background. They're all standing around with beautiful partners on
their arms. Why is everybody happy and connected except me? I
shouldn't have to live like this. I'm made for so much more. Indeed
I am. At Last! I'm sure if someone took a survey, one of the most
often quoted Bible verses among singles would be Genesis 2:18, in
which God looks at newly created Adam and declares, "It is not good
for man to be alone." I've personally browbeaten God with this
verse many times, but with few results. God himself said it's not
good for a man to be alone. I figure sometimes I need to remind him
of that fact. Adam's story isn't much different from that of many
singles. He strikes out into the world ready to prove he can
survive in the jungle. Due to lack of competition, he builds a
successful landscaping business that dominates the market. Yet when
Adam takes time to smell the roses, he feels the hunger of
loneliness. Alarmed by the realization that success isn't enough,
he longs for somebody special in his life, somebody who can help
with the business and comfort him when he comes home at night. Then
comes the part we all long for as singles. While Adam sleeps, he
dreams of meeting a perfect mate. This mate is a lot like him and
they have much in common, but there's also something very
different. The mate can do things he can't do, understand things in
ways he can't understand. Together their life is fulfilling. Adam
awakes and realizes he isn't imagining or dreaming. Like a
slow-motion scene in a music video, she appears: the most
captivating and enticing creature he's ever seen! At once he knows
she compliments him perfectly. She's just like him, yet she's
different in all the right places and in all the right ways. He
stands speechless for several moments. And then he utters those
famous words, "Woe Man!" The name stuck. Adam then composed the
first love song, called "At Last!": This at last is bone of my
bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she
was taken out of Man. (Gen. 2:23; ESV) Adam's sense of loneliness
before Eve was created wasn't some silly feeling. The image-bearer
of God truly was incomplete for his task without his partner. God
himself declared Adam's isolation "not good." Together Adam and Eve
were perfect strength and beauty. Apart from each other there's a
sense of disjointedness. These verses can be painful for singles.
We long for Adam and Eve's scene to be our scene. We're moved by
powerful and romantic encounters in movies because we want the same
in our lives. We pray for the perfect companion, chosen by God,
who's the right match in every way. Both men and women are created
in the image of God, whether they are separate or together, yet
each often feel incomplete until becoming one flesh with a spouse.
That's why Genesis 2:18 can encourage us. It validates our sense of
drifting and apartness. There isn't something wrong with us. This
verse not only tells us we'll feel lonely and alone, but it also
tells us something is probably wrong if we don't. I know too many
singles who pretend they aren't lonely and pretend they don't care
about marriage. At times, I fight the same temptation. It's easier
to deny the angst of being without a soulmate than to step into the
abyss of loneliness. Stifling a desire makes us feel in control;
acknowledging a desire makes us vulnerable. Yet a desire that isn't
open can't be filled. Adam's experience reminds singles that
loneliness is normal and necessary. This is affirming to me,
because often I grow weary of the single life. I want to throw in
the towel because everything seems out of place in my life. I took
a wrong turn somewhere. I need a new job. I need to change
churches. I need new hobbies. I need new friends. I need to move to
a new city. Yet when I calm down and take a good look at my life, I
realize I actually like my job and my church. I enjoy my hobbies. I
value my friends. I love where I live. I'm just out of sorts
because I feel unconnected. But it's okay; I should. Adam had the
same feeling until God gave him Eve. We're made for so much more.
Loneliness is the wailing siren that doesn't let me forget.
Loneliness—What Is It Good For? Between the powerful feelings of
loneliness within us and the hailstorm of pressure from others to
"settle down already," it's tempting to stifle our God-given
desires for intimacy, romance, and union because they're just too
painful. Holding onto the desire for intimacy in this world is like
trying to hold a dozen eggs in one hand. It doesn't take much for
us to give up and call ourselves foolish. It's no wonder most
singles are reluctant to open up about their deep loneliness, even
with other singles. We're often more accustomed to misunderstanding
and misguided attempts to "fix" our condition than we are to
receiving genuine sympathy and compassion. So what do many singles
do when they're intensely lonely and bombarded with disheartening
messages? They get married; if not to another lonely single, then
to their job, hobby, ministry, or anything else that kills the
hunger of loneliness. "I know I hide behind being busy with my
job," a single told me recently. "But it's just easier that way."
Ironically, most singles don't need a marriage as much as they need
a divorce—a divorce from the idolatrous relationships they've
formed to kill their hunger pangs of loneliness. In truth, our
desire for union with another can't be met unless the desire is
acknowledged, enlarged, and available. Often God can't put good
things in our hands because they're already too full with idols.
Detours around loneliness are such idols. If many of us had the
choice, we'd marry as soon as possible; we'd do anything to get rid
of our singleness. I've begged, bargained, screamed, yelled, cried,
and pleaded with God, yet he hasn't budged. At times I doubted he
even cared, until he mercifully reminded me of his goodness and his
love for me. So why should we smash the idols and look our
loneliness in the eye? Because God wants to do more, say more, and
change far more in us than just our marital status. He wants to use
our loneliness in a profound way. As singles, we're in an awesome
window of time to discover who we are in God's great story and
where we're headed. We need to cherish the freedom to listen to
God's voice without the hindrances of a demanding spouse or a
wailing toddler. Loneliness can be one of God's greatest gifts to
singles. When someone first told me to treasure this time in my
life and embrace my loneliness as a gift from God, I thought he was
crazy. How insensitive can you get? Don't you know I'd do anything
to get rid of this gnawing inside? Yet gradually I've come to
appreciate the wisdom behind those words. An Unexpected Gift
Loneliness is a gift from God because it's a continual reminder I'm
created for so much more. Not just union with a spouse, but also a
deeper connection with my family and friends—and most of all,
intimacy with my Creator. Loneliness pushes me forward when I'd
otherwise be tempted to settle for lackluster relationships and an
isolated existence. We're all tempted to retreat when we're
disappointed or hurt by others. We want to pull up the drawbridge
leading to our hearts. Loneliness beckons us to release that kind
of control and to engage and connect with others. It's a reminder
that we're fueled by relationships and that our tank is empty.
Sometimes, when loneliness gets the best of me, I become angry and
bitter toward God. How could he let this happen to me? I conclude
he's cruel because he could give me a spouse in a flash, yet he
refuses. So I choose to avoid him and just go through the motions
of religion. I mutter under my breath in disgust. But then, aware
of my need, I fall before him pleading—and he always answers with
comfort, hope, or new paths for the future. Without loneliness, I'd
run from him and not look back. But I can't, because this creature
was created for intimacy with its Creator. Loneliness is also an
opportunity for us to ask God what he wants to let surface in our
hearts. It gets our attention and consequently we're driven to ask
our Father what he's trying to tell us. What are you trying to get
me to notice, Lord? What relational pattern are you trying to free
me from? How am I sabotaging the good things you're trying to give
me? Would marriage be destructive for me right now? What new thing
do you want to do at this point in my journey? As much as I don't
want to admit it, God has used my loneliness from time to time to
convict me of sin. He's shown me my bitterness when I've blamed
someone else. He's shown me my fear when I've claimed, "She's not
my type." And he's also used my loneliness to propel me towards
action. I've often found the motivation to hit the dance floor, ask
for a phone number, or go new places because I was so tired of
feeling alone. Finally, loneliness brings me to a place of
submission and surrender. The weight of a lonely heart is too great
a burden for me to bear. I struggle, strain, and grit my teeth to
carry the load, but it becomes too much. I'm forced to lay it at
God's feet and let him carry it. Surrendering our desires for
intimacy to God isn't the same as stifling those desires. When we
surrender our desires for romance to Christ, we admit we aren't in
control of this area of our lives nor do we want to be. We heed his
call to patience. We wait for his best. When we kneel before our
Father with uplifted hands, we have his promise that when we ask
for bread, he won't give us a stone. Jesus' Loneliness I am amazed
at Jesus' example during the last night he spent with his
disciples. Just hours away from the most grueling, brutal suffering
the Roman world offered, Jesus knew full well what lay ahead. The
Evil One was tempting him away from the cross at every moment. When
I'm facing a great trial, I need loving, supportive friends around
me. I believe Christ needed the same that night. In fact, he told
his disciples he yearned for some time to share supper with them.
The end had come. There would be no more exorcisms or mass feedings
for now. Jesus' predictions regarding his death were about to come
true. The horror of the Passion was about to begin. Yet notice
Jesus' primary concern. He's intent on drawing his disciples
closer. As they argue over who'll be the greatest in the Kingdom,
he washes their feet. As they promise to stick by him, he promises
not to leave them without a Comforter. When Jesus retreats to the
mountains to pray, he doesn't go alone; he takes Peter, James, and
John and repeatedly asks them to pray with him in the Garden. The
Son of God seeks the intimacy and encouragement of those he came to
save at the most crucial hour in mankind's history. The next day he
would be executed for them. That night he just wanted to be close
to them. I don't believe Jesus ever felt so alone during his
earthly ministry as he did that night with his disciples. None of
them understood what was about to happen. How could they? Instead,
they asked irrelevant questions and jockeyed for position. Still,
Jesus sought to serve them, encourage them, and love them. He
turned his deep feelings of loneliness into an opportunity to
submit to his Father and connect with his friends. There's no
better example for singles struggling with loneliness. Please if
your interesting and serious smart enough that we can make
something to be seen in the world of respectable people |
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